Missouri, United States

Dating in St. Louis

Meet real singles in St. Louis, whether you live here or are visiting.

Looking for singles in St. Louis? St. Louis is home to about 279,695 people, and The One Dating keeps your deck to real people near you, shows you who already likes you, and opens the chat the moment it is mutual. Here are a few first date ideas to try once you match.

First date ideas in St. Louis

  • Gateway Arch

    Room to walk and talk, with no table to sit across.

  • Missouri Botanical Garden

    Calm enough to actually hear each other.

  • Saint Louis Art Museum

    See what catches each other's eye.

  • Saint Louis Zoo

    A natural conversation starter at every enclosure.

  • Mildred Lane Kemper Art Museum

    A gallery stroll is calm, easy and memorable.

  • Powell Hall

    Check the listings and make a night of it.

Meeting someone new? Read our first date safety tips and how to spot a fake profile.

How The One Dating works in St. Louis

  • No bots and no fake accounts in your deck: every like is a real person.
  • Pick a Main Character Vibe so matches know your energy before the first message.
  • See who already likes you, and get a short list of Top Picks from the preferences you save.
  • Only matches can message you, and block or report takes two taps.

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