Kansas, United States

Dating in Hays

Meet real singles in Hays, whether you live here or are visiting.

Looking for singles in Hays? Hays is home to about 21,213 people, and The One Dating keeps your deck to real people near you, shows you who already likes you, and opens the chat the moment it is mutual. Here are a few first date ideas to try once you match.

First date ideas in Hays

  • Ellis County Historical Society

    Exhibits give you something to talk about from the first minute.

  • Whisnant Park

    A walk here keeps a first date easy and free.

  • Fort Hays Rose Garden

    A slow walk through the gardens makes an easy first date.

  • Fox Theatre

    See what's on, then talk it over after.

  • Hays Arts Center

    A cultural night out with plenty to talk about.

  • Hickok Park

    Bring a coffee and take the long way round.

Meeting someone new? Read our first date safety tips and how to spot a fake profile.

How The One Dating works in Hays

  • No bots and no fake accounts in your deck: every like is a real person.
  • Pick a Main Character Vibe so matches know your energy before the first message.
  • See who already likes you, and get a short list of Top Picks from the preferences you save.
  • Only matches can message you, and block or report takes two taps.

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