California, United States

Dating in Costa Mesa

Meet real singles in Costa Mesa, whether you live here or are visiting.

Looking for singles in Costa Mesa? Costa Mesa is home to about 109,131 people, and The One Dating keeps your deck to real people near you, shows you who already likes you, and opens the chat the moment it is mutual. Here are a few first date ideas to try once you match.

First date ideas in Costa Mesa

  • Pacific Amphitheatre

    A gig date for when you share a favourite sound.

  • OC Fair & Event Center

    Bring a coffee and take the long way round.

  • South Coast Repertory

    See what's on, then talk it over after.

  • Segerstrom Center for the Arts

    Check the calendar and pick something new to you both.

  • Orange County Museum of Art

    See what catches each other's eye.

  • Liulu

    Pick a favourite piece each and say why.

Meeting someone new? Read our first date safety tips and how to spot a fake profile.

How The One Dating works in Costa Mesa

  • No bots and no fake accounts in your deck: every like is a real person.
  • Pick a Main Character Vibe so matches know your energy before the first message.
  • See who already likes you, and get a short list of Top Picks from the preferences you save.
  • Only matches can message you, and block or report takes two taps.

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